I can only commit to update this blog on a weekly basis, so I decided to have a weekly theme, which I believe will allow me to focus. You may join me anytime you feel like it in any day of the week. To standardize, my week 1 starts on the first Sunday of the month. The last Sunday is also considered as the last week, thought it depends if it’s 4th or 5th week. I may have some middle of the week posts, if my blogging self likes it that is :)
Should you join (I wish you would) in any of my themes (call it meme if it spreads), just grab that week’s badge and include in your post. It would also be nice to share your story with other couples and just as nice to read and learn from them.
Thank you for coming and it is my desire that we all grow in our marriages… And may we never forget that before we were called mama, we were first called honey, darling, babe… before we became a mother, we were first a lover.
All about me – anything and everything I want to share about me, myself and moi. It is not selfish to love ourselves. The Bible tells us “to love our neighbors as we love ourselves”. A healthy love of self, a time to take care of our own needs and to reflect on things that matter to us as an individuals are vital to performing all our roles. So let’s time to talk about us and spend time on our individuality.
All about our dates or bonding moments. Oh yes, dating shouldn’t stop. We dated when we didn’t have kids so why not go on a date now? I think we need to have special bonding moments now more than ever. It’s good for us and also good for the kids to understand that “mama and papa love each other, so we spend time for each other”. It doesn’t have to be “grand”. If friends or family can watch the kids while we have dinner out or overnight somewhere then that’s wonderful! Share it! However, as simple as watching a movie together while the kiddos are asleep, eating afternoon snacks together before picking up our little ones from school or even just a 15 minute couch time is all it takes for us to tell our partners they matter to us!
All about our husbands – anything and everything we want to share, with our husband’s permission, about him and the things he likes to do. Take time to reflect on traits that we appreciate about our partners and some of their habits that get “in our nerves” yet, inspite those, we choose to love them :) Just as they choose to love us inspite of our rough edges.
All about moments that you both wish for or memories that gave you so much joy, thus making it a DELIGHTFUL moment or memory. Past, present or future events that you think will make it delightful for you, for hubby or for both of you. It could even just be a picture or an item that either one of you or both of you find DELIGHTFUL or beautiful. When you see something or hear something or even taste something and it makes you say: DELIGHTFUL! That qualifies!
As the name suggests, these are questions and or answers we asked our husbands or questions our hubbys asked us, Qs or As we would like to share to our readers or Qs and As we’d like our readers to help us find answers on topics pertaining to stuff involved in our marriages. It could even be questions we asked ourselves and and found the answers ourselves too.